The reason why I copied this journal here is not because we should think about suddenly marrying a hijabi or bearded guy. BUT it's about making everyone think about where they are going in their own life: Deen or Duniya

And before I get slated for putting this journal up, ask yourself this...how many times have you missed a prayer because you were out with friends; at dinner or at the cinema.

In 24 hours, it takes roughly 7 mins to pray, thats 35 mins of your time per day. Is the Almighty asking too much of you?

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Latifr Journal:
This week a possible suitor asked me: 'Do you wear the hijaab all the time?'

'No, i wear it part time just for kicks'...... is what i should have said.....

Now..... this is exactly what im talking about and its not the first time a pakistani british boy (and im very mindful of pointing out its the british creed who have the tendencies to say all the wrong things most of the time ) has aked me this. They whince and churn at the idea of going out with this woman looking a bit too cosy in all that material she wraps herself up with.

I have been wearing my scarf since January and quickly realised that it can be a huge turn off for guys who watch too much bollywood and dont realise thier 'ideal' look for a woman is derived from the Hindu fantasy and has nothing to do with wanting to be with a modest, believing Muslimah.

Maybe some of you lot out there can shed the light on this?

If anything it gives me a clear insight into the level of understanding of the Deen some chaps have - or dont have as the case may be!

Comments from Zara2005:

Another hard hitting journal I hate indian movies.. but my parents and sister and family is way too much into it.. I cant even stand the music especially the latest songs and videos.I feel sorry for our brothers and sisters who take indian films stars as their idols..

They are the one who are harming themsleves..Indian Movies and Videos are responsible for moral terrorism. They should be banned from Islamic countries The standard of Arab media Movies and Video cr@p is a lil poor.. lets pray that it stays poor for ever...

Pakistanis have been corrupted by the influence of Hindu fantasies.. and their stupid stories.. revolving around sex and love. Pakistanis have been immersed into this oblivioun with their facinations with indian Movies and drammas and the western ways..I dont know if i would ever want to go back to pakistan.May All ah Subhan uTaala guide all muslims to the right path...Ameen

Comments from IHussaini:

There is a conflict rising among muslims. There are 2 jama'ah among them. One who is moving toward being like the kuffar and one who is moving toward being more like the muslims. Among those who move toward being like the kuffar there are 2 jama'ah from them.

One group sincerely love the kuffar and this love is based on desire to enjoy the world, while forgetting God and His way. These people have concienciously rejected. And there is no hope for them unless they repent and change.

The other group are weak people who are jahil and ignorant. They are caught in the snare and traps of the dunya. And while they will enjoy, they will also suffer the consequences of their choice and regret it. Our hope is that they will eventually learn the error of their ways. But if you are from the jama'ah of those who want to be like the muslims. Then your mu'amalat and dealings have to change with the people who are trying to adopt the kafir lifestyle.

Read Milestones, by syed qutb. And also read about the aqeedah concepts of al-wala wal-bara. May Allah protect you and us all from the fitna of those who smile at us from the outside, but seek to corrupt us from the inside. Ameen!