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To play or not to play ?
What is a playa
What motivates players to play and not be sincere in their dealings with others.
And what's the opposite of a player - a nice person ? Can one be too nice, or naive; how do you develop a tough exterior that repels players.
To play, or not to play: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous skanking,
Or to take arms against a sea of sirens,
And by opposing reject them?
To be single: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to,
'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd.
To be single, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of singledom what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause: there's the respect That makes calamity of so lonely life;
For who would bear the whips and scorns of lovers,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of despised love, the law's delay,
The insolence of office and the spurns
That patient merit of the flirt takes.
( contortion of Hamlet 3/1 )
What motivates players to play and not be sincere in their dealings with others.
And what's the opposite of a player - a nice person ? Can one be too nice, or naive; how do you develop a tough exterior that repels players.
To play, or not to play: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous skanking,
Or to take arms against a sea of sirens,
And by opposing reject them?
To be single: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to,
'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd.
To be single, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of singledom what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause: there's the respect That makes calamity of so lonely life;
For who would bear the whips and scorns of lovers,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of despised love, the law's delay,
The insolence of office and the spurns
That patient merit of the flirt takes.
( contortion of Hamlet 3/1 )
Comments on this journal
my 12-liners are ok tho aren't they?
I would be curious to as I scratch my head everytime I see one and wonder the same thing.
I guess to each his/her own.
i think it's best to stay away from all playa types.. i doubt there are many semi bad apples.. as mega puts it.. waiting to turn into good ones
as an adult you either know what you want and you wear that on your sleeve .. or you are 'confused' which is just an image you're trying to portray
A PLAYER (not PLAYA)
How do you know when YOU are being PLAYED....
By the way....this isn't about ANYONE HERE, nor about me. Seriously!
I have to say that these days to avoid Gossip.
1. When He makes promises he never keeps....
Example: telling you he would love to take you out,
BUT HE NEVER DOSE.....
2. When He is not fully truthful about being at the places in times he says he is.
Example: Always being out of town, Always saying he has to be here or there.
3. PLAYING on your emotions
4. Acting like he is THE most Sincere Sensitive guy to everyone you know....even you fall for it.
Thats how they Grasp your trust.
5. Keeping you happy with his words and touches and kisses, and what not, so you will be there as his SIDE dish.
6. THIS IS THE BEST ONE: He will Never actually Define the relationship, and keeps saying you guys are "JUST FRIENDS" but who is that intimate with someone who is "JUST A FRIEND" Especially when he knows how you feel about him!!!
Thats when you KNOW you are his Side Dish.
7. Most Hurtful....when You know there is a very GOOD Man inside to him and you Genuinely Adore him, and love him but he doesn't see it. And you keep giving him the benefit of the doubt, cause you are hooked. Its all a Mind Game.
Thats my dear is when you KNOW you have been Played and you cant let go.
There are plenty more but this is just some of what I gathered from friends who have been threw it.
Please don't send me replies about this telling me I am wrong, or something negative about me.
Just let me have this one, and let it go....dont argue!
its become a lab and fon personal session - girls break it up and where is sir irfanalot. his presence is sorely missed.
i'm ok.. have 3 days off from 2moro to phone recruitment ppl etc.. which is why my work attitude has changed to a devil-may-care one (as opposed to devil-does-care)
for b'day am meeting up friends...going for a few drinks and then onto a thai restaurant for dinner and some kareoke singing :P
wot r ur plans for your upcoming big day...
and why is this such a ghost village today.. apart from the 3 or 4 musketeers..
fon, name and shame!