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Trespassers will be shot (again)


Share stories of stubborn people who kept persisting in starting or continuing a dialogue or relationship with you.
 

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Login to find out (August 22, 2005 at 10:19am)
Ha, ha! yeah I am getting that. I'm definitely getting that.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 3:07pm)
T u only jus figured that out...LABS is the gross-ist of us lot :P...she's a sheep in wolf's clothing :P
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 11:35am)
Uh...you guys are really gross.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 11:19am)
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

no i made that up... it was just a metaphoric feet washing
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 11:10am)
Labs did you have to wash your in-laws feet?

Did you have to scrap the toe jam out as well?
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 11:06am)
feet washing isn't a fetish is it.. that is feet sucking
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 11:02am)
whats this feet washing fetish?
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 10:52am)
washing his parents feet is a third :(
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 10:47am)
You would be surprised at some of the desi tactics. They get you emotionally trapped with them, then bring out their DEMAND list, not Wish List and converting is one of them.

Obedience to his will is another. lol
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:44am)
But he's not desi. I met a couple people on here who didn't care that I wasn't Muslim. I don't know if they'd wanted me to convert or something though.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:44am)
My former husband is Muslim. He never asked me to convert - the whole "People of the Book" thing.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:29am)
Yes true, they (and me) are the minority. Heck, both my sisters married non-Muslims without any request on their part for him to convert.

My parents although strong Muslims did not force my sisters into anything and accept the 2 son-in-laws with open arms and heart.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:27am)
IRFY im sure there are...but I don't think they are the 'norm'...if anything, i think it'd be a very small minority.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:23am)
I agree with T. One should follow the faith that is in his/her heart.

Many paths to God in my opinion.

FON, there are desi or Muslim guys out there married or dating non-Muslims with no expectation of having the woman convert
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:22am)
i cant really comment to be honest T.....because for me...there was never a question of marrying a non-muslim guy...even though, i grant you, within the 'islam world' we still have our differences...however marrying 'A' muslim bloke would still ensure that my kids would grow up with the basic foundations of Islam...if you know what i mean.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:11am)
Sorry honey, your dead daddy wanted you to be Muslim. Ha, ha! What a guilt trip that would be. (shudder)
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 9:11am)
Yeah, I knew what you meant, FON. It's okay. It's all just a question and I knew that.

I know also that a lot of desis want a conversion. Met one who adored me and I really liked him too, but his dad was totally against us because I'm white and Christian. And even he seemed brainwashed into thinking that God forbid something were to happen to him (where do you guys get these scenarios anyway) that I'd raise his kids Catholic or something. Ha, ha!

I told him that if the kid was Buddhist, then he'd be going to the temple. If he was Muslim I'd be driving him to the mosque. If he was Christian then he'd be going to the church, etc, etc. But the kid would be going somewhere. He didn't like my answer.

I don't see why I should have the right to force my kid what to believe.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 8:59am)
T please don't get me wrong...i wasn't suggesting that u should convert or anything...i was just merely asking...and ur absolutely right...u have to do what is right for you.

But yaar....if u want to marry a desi (a muslim desi)...then i think 9 out 10 of them would probably want you to convert...coz i don't think there that many (muslims) desis out there who would willing to marry someone who isn't a muslim.....but i may well be wrong on that front.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 8:54am)
No, Freak_of_nature. I can't convert. If he liked me then he wouldn't want me to lie. I have my own beliefs and if believes otherwise that's cool.

I could lie to myself, lie to him, but I can't lie to my God. If I practice Christianity then I practice Christianity. I believe in a couple religions, but that's what I practice.
 
Login to find out (August 19, 2005 at 8:51am)
but T say u meet some nice desi guy...but he will only marry u if u convert..... will u?