yeah... i was like... ummm... okayyyyyyy... psycho chick going postal on other girls....

wow..... I didn't see Ras' post before... but on this site, I don't doubt it... jeeez, some people....

speaking of which, this was some girl who pinged me a while back and I saved this chat to share w/ you and have had it on my computa ever since... lol...

this is how she started the conversation:

HANAI: so what are you guys chatting about tonight
beeders: who?
beeders: are you new to naseeb?
HANAI: 2 weeks
HANAI: i have meet some interesting people on this website
beeders: really
beeders: that's cool
HANAI: There are some really nice guys, and a well i have not really spoken to many girls
HANAI: The guys are just frineds... nothing more. I like to be friends with more guys than girls
beeders: ic
HANAI: It could cause some trouble but I don't know
HANAI: the reason why I don't want girlfriends is because I am afraid they are going to use my good natures, take advantag e of my and have an affair with my no ex husband
beeders: wow...
beeders: ok well, i gotta go

-- HANAI closes room or disconnects --

ya... you gotta keep perspective girl. but it doesn't make what you went thru any less painful or you any less strong...

serious.

way to go Ras.. u sure told him... u go girl

LOL...Poor guy...I dont think he expected the lecture...I just hope whoever he flirts with next...well she has the decency to tell him flat out no...maybe he will learn...I still fell sorry for his wife.

as for me..thanx karabast, I was actually one of the luckier ones...I know some ppl who have had it ten times worse than me...it makes me thankfull that I did not have it half as bad.

1) ras, I'm so sorry to hear what a jerk your ex is. you barely know me, but i have immense respect for you for going through with what must have been a v. difficult decision.

2) you totally called that guy out... ras, you're better than an ice cold shower!

HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA...

this ones a doozy:

7334: how r u
ras130: lol...k
7334: u r beautiful
ras130: ur married!
7334: ya but still
ras130: lol...umm...does bhabi know?
7334: nope
7334: why should she
ras130: so why do this to her...?
ras130: do u not love her anymore?
7334: oh i love her like no one in the world
ras130: Mashallah.
7334: but love is love. however i still like other gals for othere reasons
7334: i like gals who wear glasses i find it very sexy and hot
ras130: Do you know my husband cheated on me, he wont give me a divorce because he says he "loves" me. So I am getting a khulla...I could take anything from him, except cheating.
ras130: My daughter was 4 months old at the time of my seperation
ras130: I am telling you this, because if u truly love ur wife, dont let something like this ruin your marriage
ras130: what I am trying to say to you...please dont do this. a few minutes of attraction is not worth a lifetime of pain to your wife and ur children...u have children?
7334: no not yet
ras130: u probably didnt expect the lecture...
ras130: sorry
ras130: I just ...I cant do to another woman what was done to me.
ras130: I wish you and your wife a lifetime of love and happiness...Inshallah.
7334: i will continue to love my wife no matter what
7334: i am just seeking little pleasure online
7334: after all i am never going to do this in person
ras130: but not through me, and FYI cheating online is just as horrible as cheating in person...Allah Hafiz.
ras130: I feel sorry for ur wife

interesting...

be my guest.. ur more than welcome to go check our weirdos out

ti that's because in any conversation you have, you're the weirdo!!!

heheh that was the best line tan.

good to know cheeni...

the other day this guy who was chatting with me said "i'm romantic... are you romantic"...

not with you, you hairy punk. blech.

LOL...umm...yeah...u just explained alot there tan!

like there is no tomorrow Tan the Man!!! :P

no Karabaast he isnt from NY so rest assured... one less freakazoid for you to worry about..

I just dont get it... i mean chat is there so they u can try to talk to someone, start getting to know them but when u find weirdos like these, that's just so discouraging... :( i'd rather be alone

do u really want me to sic londunpunk on your homophobic butt??

dont be jealous of our closesness...u know you wish you had the with tareek...

what a psycho. please tell me the guy isn't from ny, because if he is, then i think i know who it is.

LOL...cheeni and her stalker duude.....I vant to marry you!

Hi all... this was not an email but it was weird none the less.. i felt like i was in the twilight zone.. I talked to this guy a few times about 3 months ago.. I was bored and he seemed nice so I called him one day on his number that he gave me... but I think that was a serious mistake as you will see below:

Guy: hi there
cheeni: hi
Guy: why didn't u call me
cheeni: i got busy
Guy: do u miss me
Guy: call me right now
Guy: i want to marry u
Guy: are u ok with that
cheeni: y do u want ot marry me?
Guy: cuz i love u
cheeni: lol
Guy: i do
Guy: u wanna get married
cheeni: i do.. someday
Guy: let's get married (10 mins of silence follow)
Guy: hello
Guy: u there
Guy: say something
Guy: i am propsoing for gods sakes
cheeni: haha
cheeni: i see that
cheeni: but its kind of hard to take an online proposal seriously dont u think
Guy: say yes
Guy: i am very horny
cheeni: so?
Guy: time to get married
Guy: i am sick of being a virgin
cheeni: so u just want to get married so u can have sex?
Guy: that's one big reason
Guy: don't be so picky
cheeni: well marriage is a matter of the rest of our lives.. i think its ok to be picky for that
Guy: no
Guy: not too picky
Guy: come on
Guy: what's wrong with me
Guy: dont' complicate this
Guy: i have printed out ur pic and hang it on my wall
Guy: and said to myself, i will marry this girl
Guy: i sent the whole family ur pic
Guy: even my uncles
cheeni: WHAT????
Guy: I
Guy: Love
Guy: You
Guy: Main
Guy: Tumse
Guy: Pyar
Guy: Kartha
Guy: Hoon
cheeni: ok i got to go now
Guy: wait
Guy: i am sick and tired of waiting
Guy: u hurt my feelings tonight
Guy: i feel like such a fool for loving u
Guy: I LOVE YOU CHEENI
Guy: I Love u
Guy: if u don't say yes now, then u will lose me forever
cheeni: look dude, i was trying to be nice but now ur just getting on my nerves..IM NOT INTERESTED.. I dont know y you are being so weird about it. I talked to you as a friend. i didnt know u would turn into a freak. Leave me alone man.

-- Cheeni closes room or disconnects --

sorry for making this so long,,, but what the hell man.. y cant I get any nice guys???? or somewhat nice guys???

LOL@ aan's story... i thought Ruby had a traumatic evening the other day but you get the cake on this one...

Ok this is just funny, Ras and I both got an email from the same guy, wanting to hook up... and he isnt even from Dallas!!!! talk about coincidence... and he is like a 41yr old uncle ji... :#