I was chatting with Chocogurl (how do you like that for props?) and I hit upon something. What we don't want in a potential mate is at least as important as what we want. Too few people, it seems, do not lend enough creedence to what it is they don't like in a mate. He/She may have all the qualities that one would want but they may also have qualities that you just can't stomach. We become so fixated through our need to fulfill positive criteria that we ignore the negative. What are the qualities that we can't stand in a person? Do you think that our fixation with fulfilling our own requirements and ignoring other aspects contribute to the ultimate failure of relationships? Lets hear it!