sometime we complicate things. i may be true to myself which is good to get me out of the confusion. But i will also find people who may not accept me easy. so i need to be flexible wherever i live. which means i don't have to force anyone into what i believe, and they shouldn't hate me for not doing the same thing as they do. for example, i don't drink alcoholic or go to a bar, which some of my friends may say "bar is our favorite place, where else can we go" which create distance between me and my friends. and some muslims friends may follow some traditional habbits that i don't like. so i end up create my own identity different from both culture.

I don't think the idea is that you cannot fit into the culture you were born into, but rather that you have more than one interest in your life and don't feel that everyone has to live the way you live.

or lead a double life, triple even, lotta stress but you'll find the right way faster.

for me... i think my culture is my faith.