I got a moment of inspiration today. The simplest way to sum it up, how to be in a relationship, is, in my opinion:
"Be true to your self, and kind to her self."
Or you can just say "kind to her", whichever is easier.

Suppose you had a certain situation and the question for you to consider was: Whats more important in your relationship, being true to yourself, or to be kind to your partner? Tough question isnt it! If you had just ONE choice, what would you chose to do? I would really just like to do both. But given a choice, I would say being true to ourself is most critical and I guess kindness can always be put in, unless its a very rare situation which I cant even think of right now.

Well that was it, my inspiration for today. Its a good simple directive. Sorry had to edit the JE a little bit, if you read the older first version.