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Which one are you?


Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn't know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot, and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter.

The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup.

Turning to her he asked. "Daughter, what do you see?" "Potatoes, eggs, and coffee," she hastily replied. "Look closer", he said, "and touch the potatoes." She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face. "Father, what does this mean?" she asked.

He then explained that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each faced the same adversity, the boiling water. However, each one reacted differently. The potato went in strong, hard, and unrelenting, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak. The egg was fragile, with the thin outer shell protecting its liquid interior until it was put in the boiling water. Then the inside of the egg became hard. However, the ground coffee beans were unique. After they were exposed to the boiling water, they changed the water and created something new. "Which are you," he asked his daughter."

When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean?" In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is what happens within us. Which one are you?

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Login to find out (October 4, 2005 at 1:13am)
Each one produces a set of consequences. Those consequences can be limiting/empowering, both to oneself and to those who are around us (family, society and the world). Most people pick to be the best one they know how. Either because of their limited experiences (or lack of openess to new experiences), their limited knowledge (or because of their chioce of not to know). A lot of people don't conciously know that they are choosing to be the way they are being, they just carry on doing whatever they have been doing in the past. However they will still be doing the best they can. If they are not aware that they are conciously choosing, how can they change their choices? Being a "coffee bean" is a creative response to life, whereas the other two are more "reactive/responsive". Which one is more empowering? Which one gives you more inner control, and allows growth without imposing control on others?

Obviously there will be situations in life where a reactive response would be the best choice (running out of the way, if a truck is coming towards you). However, it is still a CHOICE, for a person could still stay and get himself killed if he wanted to.

I guess the best choice would be where everyone wins. In certain situations the "better" choice may be the egg/potato. You choose.
 
Login to find out (September 27, 2005 at 6:02pm)
such an interesting analogy
 
Login to find out (September 27, 2005 at 9:50am)
So do you think any one is better than the other? And if so, why?
 
Login to find out (September 27, 2005 at 1:01am)
True, but the choice is always there.
 
Login to find out (September 26, 2005 at 7:43am)
Would you not say that depending on which stage of your life you are at, and what you are going through, you can be either one of them?