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Who should be on naseeb?


I was wondering should people who are committed or in a relationship with someone be on naseeb? Is there too much temptation on naseeb? Would you feel comfortable if your partner is on a website as naseeb even if they are here to exchange ideas or make some friends? Would you be concerned if they are talking to members of the opposite sex? Would you be worried that this could lead to affairs?
 

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Login to find out (July 15, 2005 at 10:28am)
HELL NO!!!! IT'S ALL INNOCENT I TELL YA! RATHER IT BE OVER A COMPUTER THAN IN REAL LIFE. );
 
Login to find out (June 28, 2005 at 9:58am)
it is all an issue of trust...if u cant trust the guy then u shouldnt be with him.
 
Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 11:06pm)
Erm... Aheam... DIL to PAGAL HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAI :>
a. I doubt if there is any temptation on naSeeb... the domain is too YAAAAAAAAAAWn (at times)
b. there is nothing wrong using a domain to make new friends, however cheating on you can lead too some serious... very serious problems (UnFaithFulL the Movie)
>>>>c.Would you be worried that this could lead to affairs?
Well when every thing is meant to be broken, then its better to break every thing with styLe
 
Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 9:59pm)
I prefer that my signicant other have male friends. I think it is healthy for her to know in advance that I'm a jerk . I have a habit (not sure if it is good or bad) that I trust my friends and thus need to trust her 100% regarding potential affairs. For me, if she does have an affair, either there is something lacking in her or me and thus it was not a good match. I was totally cool with my ex talking to her own college male friends without my prescense, though some of them would feel awkward when I picked up the phone. Exchange ideas? Why not? Maybe she can teach me a few things/ideas. Unless Sahadat gets me a high tech lock and key like he has for his woman's room, I will continue to trust and have no issue with my potential 'her' to socialize with opposite sex.
 
Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 1:43pm)
As far as feeling comfortable if your partner is on naseeb goes, i am not in a relationship but I would not be concerned about him having an affair. I might get jealous, but not concerned. I think trust is the basis of every relationship. You have to trust your partner, whether its naseeb or other places besides internet. We meet with so many people everyday, at work, at school, most of have us have friends of opposite gender, and in this case you just have to trust your partner.
 
Login to find out (June 27, 2005 at 1:35pm)
I dont think its anything to worry about. I am here just to exchange ideas. I joined naseeb just because all my friends were on it. I dont chat with anyone from naseeb and have no intention to do so. As far as temptation is concerned, I guess it depends on every person. Believe me, if a person who is in a relationship wants to have an affair, he/she will, here or anywhere else. We meet people at work, school, masjid, other social gatherings, there are temptations everywhere. I personally dont feel comfortable chatting/talking/meeting with strangers. In the end, I think it depends on the person. And trust me, you cant stop people from infedility by not having them on naseeb. They will find other means.