Why are men so frustrating????

Login to find out (September 7, 2006 at 12:42pm)

Yawn!!!! What do you bring to the table?

Login to find out (May 19, 2006 at 6:34pm)

thanx LM....but i dont think i can cut him out....its so complicated.... -:-

Ras...some of my other friends said the same thing... :(

Login to find out (May 19, 2006 at 4:30pm)

either that or he actually does have a crush on you and is handling it in the kindergarten fashion...you know pulling your hair and acting like you have cooties ;)

Login to find out (May 18, 2006 at 7:57pm)

this guy sucks salma...if he valued your friendship at all..he wouldnt be so sketchy...you dont need unnecessary stress in your life..it will probably hurt...but in my opinion...you should just cut him out...but first...totally confront him about him being a shmuck...ahhh...i love closure

Login to find out (May 15, 2006 at 11:16pm)

um..can i jus say...he hasnt spoken to me in a month...i dont even warrant a glance when we're at work...he told one of our friends that he didnt feel like calling me back when i phoned him to see if he was gonna make it to a going away party for one of our other friends...uhhh...wut did i do?? ive given him space...ive given him the freakin grand canyon...but i know i didnt do anything...jus..all of a sudden no more talking...im very confused...help!

Login to find out (May 5, 2006 at 3:55am)

yeh well Human Imposes and God Disposes,,,, its all in his hands!!!

Login to find out (May 4, 2006 at 8:46am)

Inshallah Laila.

Login to find out (May 4, 2006 at 4:07am)

friends play too,,,, mind games!!!
Funny but usually women play mind games with men, you friend must hang out with many women as he seems clever to understand them!!

Ras130
Some of my wedding pictures are all in an album, my mummy and mother in law have them,,,,, also some are still to come from the photographer who is making me look pretty with his IT stuff!!! lol
Married life is calm and chilling, alot going on with families, Sami recently came back from Dubai, so am going through his finances and business deals, i'm back at work and will be leaving soon(july) to concentrate on having a healthy baby inshallah,,,,,,

So many plans, if Allah willing will go through ok!!

Login to find out (May 3, 2006 at 6:44pm)

playing me?? huh?? he's not my boyfriend or anything...he's my best friend...and he's just being stupid...thanx for all ur advice guys...naseeb is such a good place to vent...and ur all rite, if he wants me in his life he'll come back...thanx again...:)

Login to find out (May 3, 2006 at 11:20am)

I am fine laila...how is marriage treaten you hon? Also send me ur wedding pics ([email protected])

I wish you and sami a life time of happiness.

Login to find out (May 3, 2006 at 6:06am)

HIS PLAYING YOU!!!

LOOK, GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND PRETEND IT DOES NOT BOTHER YOU AND YOU SHOULD LAUGH AND JOKE WITH YOUR MAKES,,,,, HE'LL COME BACK RUNNING IF HIS GENUINE!!!!

MEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO SHOW SOME ATTITUDE TOO!!

RAS,,HOW ARE YOU???

Login to find out (May 3, 2006 at 12:06am)

i know u guys, thas wut ive been doing...ive given him his space...but its been almost two weeks since we last talked...do u know wut he said to me in our last convo??

Him: "Oh by the way, Thanx"
Me:"For what?"
Him:"For everything"
Me:"huh??"
Him:"Ok bye!"

and thats it...i mean i worked with him this past weekend, and he didnt say two words to me...nothing..he was joking around with everyone else...wut does that mean?? friendship over?? bye bye?? cya around?? geez im such a drama queen....:(

Login to find out (May 2, 2006 at 11:15pm)

best thing to do, leave him alone... if he wont let anyone reach out to him, he obviously wants to be left alone.. once he is done dealing with whatever he needs to deal with, he will come back to you or atleast come out to talk...

just random advice... that's what i would do anyway.. ;)

Login to find out (May 2, 2006 at 4:34pm)

maybe he's PMSing, give him a few months to a year, he'll be ok then.

Login to find out (May 2, 2006 at 9:17am)

back away hon...give him some time to vent and think of this on his own. Sometimes ppl just need space, and when they cant get it they start resenting those around them.

Tell him that you understand he is upset and that you are willing to give him space. Make sure he knows that you are not abandoning him, and that you are available to talk whenever he needs you...and then leave...if he wants you in his life..he will come find you.

Login to find out (May 1, 2006 at 6:11pm)

i dont know....he's such a drama queen...its like slamming your head repeatedly against a brick wall...there's nothing there...no emotion, no nothing...the funny thing is its not even someone im romantically linked to, he's just one of my best friends and he went from being all happy happy to this totally depressed being, i jus care about him alot and its so frustrating to see him like this, and he's cut everyone out, he's not talking to anyone...its been over a week and no one can get through to him...'sigh' i jus needed to vent...:(

Login to find out (May 1, 2006 at 2:06pm)

are u okay hon?

Login to find out (May 1, 2006 at 12:27pm)

i give up...i jus totally give up...i dont even know wut i did...or didnt do...'sniff'

Login to find out (May 1, 2006 at 8:59am)

HAHAHAHHAHA....If we could only answer that question the world would be a better place. I guess it is because they are so clueless about other ppls feelings....all men are self centered...no matter how nice they are...in the end all they remember is themselves.

Login to find out (April 30, 2006 at 5:49pm)

oh...sorry to hear that

Village Journals

Resonate your identity with Naseeb journals. Express your opinions, share your thoughts, post your writings and connect with like minded people through the power of expression.

Why are men so frustrating????

Add Comments

Comments on this journal

Village Journals Resonate your identity with Naseeb journals. Express your opinions, share your thoughts, post your writings and connect with like minded people through the power of expression.

Why are men so frustrating????

Add Comments

Comments on this journal

Village Journals

Resonate your identity with Naseeb journals. Express your opinions, share your thoughts, post your writings and connect with like minded people through the power of expression.