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Why are their so many divorces amongst the Desis/Muslims?
Yesterday, I was at a wedding and asked the dulha's brother as to why his wife wasn't there. He said she couldn't make it because she was at her mothers.
I later found out that their relationship had ended. He's a medical doctor, a good looking guy, comes from a respectable intelligent family and an overall decent bloke. And to be fair to her, the same can be applied to her also, except I don;t know about her personality.
Their beautiful son is only 5 or 6.
Why did they break up when they had everything going for them? And this was a love marriage too. I was saddened to hear what had happened.
Umer M
I later found out that their relationship had ended. He's a medical doctor, a good looking guy, comes from a respectable intelligent family and an overall decent bloke. And to be fair to her, the same can be applied to her also, except I don;t know about her personality.
Their beautiful son is only 5 or 6.
Why did they break up when they had everything going for them? And this was a love marriage too. I was saddened to hear what had happened.
Umer M
Comments on this journal
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KHALID21,,,,,,BIG MOUTH!!!!!!!
I THOUGHT DOC WAS YOUR BEST FRIEND??
WHAT DATE ARE YOU GOING TO DIE??????
WELL MY ANSWER TO HIM WAS,,,, GO AND ASK ALLAH AND LET ME KNOW WHAT HE SAID,,,,,, HIS STRANGE MAN,,,,,,,,,,,,,, GUD YOU GUYS GOT SAVED FROM MEETING HIM,,,,, LAST I SPOKE TO HIM, HE WAS COMMITING SUICIDE AS I WAS HAVING A BBQ PARTY!!!!
MORALS: I CAN RELATE TO SOME OF THE STORIES AS MY MOTHER RUN REFUGES WHERE THESE WOMEN USED TO TELL LOADS OF STORIES, BUT NOWADAY I THINK WOMEN ARE STANDING UP FOR THEMSELVES AND ARE MORE EDUCATED THEN MOST MEN, ALSO WOMEN ARE TOOO INDEPENDENT, CAREER MINDED AND MOST DON'T GET MARRIED TILL LATE IN LIFE,,
ABOUT THESE MEN,IF A MAN COMES FROM A DECENT, RESPECTABLE FAMILY THEN HE'D WAIT TILL HIS WIFE IS READY, BUT ALSO THIS CAN CAUSE SUSPICION ON WHY HAS PUT IT ON HOLD, QUESTIONS THEN CAN ASKED,, IS THEY SOMEONE ELSE, DON'T YOU LIKE ME, ARE YOU NOT A VIRGIN, ARE YOU NOT HAPPY ETC ETC ETC,,,,,,,,,,,,ALTHOUGH A WOMAN MIGHT HAVE A GENUINE REASON, THIS IS HURTFUL TO A MAN'S EGO THIS IS WHY SOME ASAIN MEN FORCE THEMSELVES ON THEY WIVES, WHICH IS WRONG, BUT IT DOES HAPPEN!!!
ABOUT DYING,, MY UNCLE USED TO SAY IT TO ME,,,, GET MARRIED BETA WHILE I'M ALIVE SO I CAN SEE YOU HAPPILY MARRIED,,,,, BUT I USED TO THINK,,, WHAT WOULD MAKE HIM MORE HAPPY,,,ME GETTING MARRIED OR ME GETTING A DIVORCE!!!
MIND YOU MY UNCLE DID DIE IN THE END,,SO NOW I NEED ANOTHER REASON TO SETTLE DOWN!!!!
assad, welcome, i'll start a new journal on in-laws on your behalf!
MORALS;; YOUR WATCHING TOOOO MANY HINDI FILMS!!!
KHALID,,I AGREE WITH YOUR COMMENTS!!!
ASAD,, DON'T AGREE WITH YOU,,,, A LOT OF LOVE MARRIAGES DO WORK WELL TOOO,,,
ASAD SET UP A JOURNAL ABOUT IN-LAWS IF YOU WANT!!!
PERSONALLY I WON'T HAVE A PROBLEM LIVING WITH MY WITCH OF A MOTHER-IN-LAW AS SHE CAN DO ALL THE COOKING AND CLEANING WHILE I ENTERTAIN HER SON!!!------CAN'T GO WRONG!!!
IF MY FUTURE HUSBAND EVER COMES ON THIS CREW,, DON'T LISTEN TO HIM,,,,IF HE TELLS YOU,,,I RAPED HIM AS I WILL JUST CRY AND CRY AND ITS HIS WORD AGAINST MINE!!!
I got a mate, and shes gone pakistan and is geting married to someone she hasn't even met before. I told her to refuse as it is against Islam to get married against their will.
But one thing that iv noticed, alot of love marriages don't work out and iv seen more arranged marriages with brighter futures (the futures orange - lame, i know but just poped into my head)
By the way, girls/ladies, would you have a problem living with your inlaws and why?