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Why do good girls like bad boys??


Have y'all noticed, how odd it is that a good girl would fall in love with a bad boy, who would torture her heart...then walk away on her:(
 

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Login to find out (April 25, 2006 at 10:03pm)
no probs ABm insha'Allah you'll all find the right one soon.
 
Login to find out (April 24, 2006 at 3:15am)
it's also the same for good boys, they always get their hearts torn to shreds by bad girls. I think sometimes good people don't realize how bad a person is because they cant believe that a person they love or loves them could be a bad person. Denial.



Peace
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 6:55pm)
sorry for the grammatical mistakes, ...i am withering away :P
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 6:53pm)
a man begs to differ that " thats impossible bible ends to certain chapter. and the other man, he replies, "and it continues to the next chapter in hell..."

well my point wasnt that to promote bad side as you can tell, but what i wanted to say that even stories continues on from what we perceive as the "dark side"
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 6:18pm)
have you seen the movie constantine Saliha?
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 1:40pm)
its kind of complicated we all want somebody to kiss or show affection by cuddling or holding somebody in your arms this is when we have less time in our hands, but sometimes when there is alot of time in hands,then the chase seems like a good idea
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 1:36pm)
Writing a post on Naseeb and after 4 days, finding the girl of your dreams and plan to get married. wow! I wish that happened to me! Ok I know it wasnt 4 days .. it was 6.
addendum: Amela, congrats!
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 1:36pm)
well there is another way to look it, maybe the bad boy is a good boy, like he puts her in her place(in a good way), by not being on her face 24/7, he lets her come to him instead,because sometimes too much attention is also not appealing,

Some girls and guys love a in chase in their relationship,like they know that they love each other but the chase makes it more interesting,its makes the relationship more firey

When either the girl or guy is paying too much attention the flavour from the chase becomes diminished...the relationship gets shaken with misunderstanding....and sometimes thats why the bad boy becomes really bad or the bad girl becomes really bad,either that or they might really be cheating on you...girl like bad boys because they give a sexual chase to the situations...it keeps the spark into the relationship
 
Login to find out (April 21, 2006 at 1:20pm)
this was just a passing phase in my life, now I finally found the man of my dreams, and we're getting maried soon insha'Allah. but one thing to remember put a good apple next to a rotten one and it will make the good apple rotten, so I agree with jazzyjaan and autumnbreeze..thank you for all the inputs.
 
Login to find out (April 19, 2006 at 12:43pm)
The bad boys too have low self-esteem because they're showing off a false self which is not their true selves. They feel if they were themselves, they couldnt get any girl. Yup, you're right. Who would you blame, the thief or the person who got their stuff stolen becuase they didnt lock the door?
I would say, the girls are responsible for recognizing bad boys and always keeping their respect in their own hands, rather than giving the control to the guy and leaving their respect at his mercy. At the same time I wish men were more respectful of women and didnt abuse.
So I think its fair to say its the responsibility of both men and women to make sure the line is not crossed.
 
Login to find out (April 19, 2006 at 9:15am)
Bad boys are abusers/charmers. They know how to make a girl feel good about herself, which is why she comes to them in the first place. Later, the girl stays with them because the guy can still make her feel good.

I think the source of the problem is the girl's low self-esteem. Only girls with low self-esteem would fall in love with a bad boy, because she knows that: The person who should make her feel good about herself is HERSELF and then the boy. Its wrong to depend on your partner as the primary source of feeling good about yourself.

Yea. isnt that true?