by Krisztina Virag, TheSoko.com lol:P Please comment:P

Bad boys are the ones women hate the most ? but only because they're impossible not to love. It is truly the finest line in the love-hate relationships. Bad boys have always and will always be irresistible for women. Why is this, you ask?

First and foremost bad boys are powerful ? they are in the position where women fly to them like moths to a flame and they can afford to pick and choose from the hottest ladies out there. Also, some bad boys tend to be successful and powerful in life generally due to their vibe and confidence. These two norms impress the ladies. There is a quote that embodies the essence of this theory, by Henry Kissinger, and it states: ?Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.?

Bad Boys Know How Women Think

Bad boys have charisma and they know exactly how to use it. Don?t get me wrong, they are not players, but they are actors in a sense. They know just how and by what means to get under our skin. And once they are there, they make us ladies think they want us permanently, which of course is not true. They are all aware that often, women act upon emotions rather than common sense. But this fake permanency gives us a sense of security.

Women Love a Challenge

Bad boys always present themselves as a challenge ? women always want to woe bad boys and impress them, while bad boys are working their own magic on impressing the women. Thus, it is a cycle between the two parties. Mind you, I find it a healthy cycle because as long as there is a desire to impress, the fire keeps burning.

It Makes her a ?Bad Girl?

Women are generally thought to be the tamer of the two sexes. Bad boys are the ones our parents, best friends, and guidance councilors warned us against. Thus by dating one, women get to rebel against the whole world.

Also, because our loved ones want us to stay far away from these guys, bad boys become the forbidden fruits of the world. Now let?s admit it, just like men, women tend to want exactly what they cannot have.

Women Think They Can Change Bad Boys

As women present a challenge of being conquered, so do the bad boys present a challenge of their own. I believe every single heterosexual woman out there will agree with me on this one: At least once in your life, you dated a guy that you found flawed, but disregarded this flaw thinking you would change the guy for the better once you were in a relationship.

Ironically, this is exactly the challenge bad boys present. They are bad, they are vulgar and women think they can transform the lions of the safari into a house-cat. Ladies, the chances of this ever happening are slim to none, unless the boy wants to change himself.

Should You Date Them?

Looking at dating a bad boy, from one perspective, is extremely risky. These boys are unpredictable and they do not take 'no' for an answer. But from another perspective, dating a bad boy can be the most predictable relationship of any. What is this predictability you ask? Simple!

The relationship never lasts. But this might be the exact charm of it. If we were to date a great guy and the relationship went bust, women would have to take at least some responsibility for what happened. But having it go down the drain with a bad boy is easy. A woman can just brush it off because it wasn?t meant to be, anyway.

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sometimes it?s good to be bad

Women always love strong men in their lives ? men who are not afraid of anything, men who can survive when it comes to push and shove. Throughout the years, the men who have engraved their names in the history books were mostly men who we would today call 'bad boys'. Women must have a gene that signals when such a guy is around them, because these guys always seem to get noticed when they walk into a room.

There is just one more thing I must point out. A bad boy should by no means be confused with a jerk. Jerks are just pitiful ? they are the jailbaits and the bandits of our world. But bad boys, well they are the Don Juan?s, and when played right, they can be quite extraordinaire.