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Winning = Team Work
Teams don't win by team player, no matter how good or great you are, but teams only win by team understanding, team spirit and by sticking together.
Marriage is also a game where 2 players are involved. If one wants to successful, they have to play with the team. NOW, for every team, it is vital to have a team leader who leads the team. In marriage, it can be anyone, as long the other follows, because it s important to win together, because YOU LOOSE INDIVIDUALLY.
SO MY QUESTION IS WHO SHOULD BE THE TEAM LEADER IN MARRIAGE, MAN OR WOMAN ?????? or who should wear the PANTS in house????
Disclaimer:
I mean no disrespect to no one.
Marriage is also a game where 2 players are involved. If one wants to successful, they have to play with the team. NOW, for every team, it is vital to have a team leader who leads the team. In marriage, it can be anyone, as long the other follows, because it s important to win together, because YOU LOOSE INDIVIDUALLY.
SO MY QUESTION IS WHO SHOULD BE THE TEAM LEADER IN MARRIAGE, MAN OR WOMAN ?????? or who should wear the PANTS in house????
Disclaimer:
I mean no disrespect to no one.
Comments on this journal
We also have a right to respond back. We each have our own approach to do that. I did it by correcting his comments. To turn the other cheek has a certain tolerance level. To ignore him to a point can be construed as admittance or acceptance of his untrue criticism of us.
Mega, by you removing him from your circle, most will no longer have to see his comments. :)
And don't be sorry, you are still my lady. :)
I am NOT into complexities.
I don't know how to be "smart" about things....I just am ME thats all I can be, I say what I feel, and feel what I say...
And I never mean bad towards anyone.
He can say what he wants about me, I don't care, but this has been continuous, every-time I come on....I should NOT worry about coming here to talk and be my self then get told off for it.
Look at my comments...I kept telling him NICELY and JOKINGLY to please stop.
even to the end.
I cares less about him, as a matter of fact, I give a fcuk to him, but I know you guys have class which you sure didn't held on to it. Friendship times is fun but the one who keeps the kool in anger really shows the class. By attacking him back doesn't make you any different then him. He attack and you attack him back. Don't you all forgets: the best answer to any stupid question or remark is silence.
He is nobody so he means nothing. Yehbandishain, by mentioning his sisters, mother and other females is not a good thing, from him I can expect, from you, I was disappointed. To throw back mud on someone, you HAVE to put your hands in the SAME mud.
i don't see why one person can't steer issues while the other person's opinion is considered as well
i only say this because some people are allergic to women who have opinions :P
and also because of the Hadith where the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) recommended on his daughter Fatima (RA)'s wedding day that she and her husband Ali (RA) divide tasks once married, so that she took care of household tasks, and he took charge of the outside tasks.
less a matter of sharing decisions, and more a division of labour
I don't believe in the whole concept of someone 'wearing the trousers' in a marriage or any relationship, come to that.
Just like you're JE has pointed out...a marriage is all about 'team playing'...NO ONE person in the marriage should lead or be the follower.
on some things however, a women can be take the lead, and that is okay.