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Women chasing men!


We have always been told by society since a very young age to have men pursue us. It's usually the guy's duty to ask a girl out. It's always the man that chases the women. Well what if there is a guy that a girl is interested in and wants to ask him out? Should she make the frist move? Or wait for him to come to his senses and ask her out....lol. I want to know how that works with desi/ middle eastern guys? Would you guys be flattered if a woman made the first move and asked you out? Or would you find her to be aggressive and not lady-like?
 

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Login to find out (August 11, 2005 at 12:19pm)
T- I didn't know you were a Paan picker.
 
Login to find out (August 11, 2005 at 2:07am)
Afgpartychic, I hear ya, we know how boys be covering for each other...LOL!!! :P Bad tanveer!!!
 
Login to find out (August 10, 2005 at 2:07pm)
Candy you don't want to know

TOK - good way to cover

we know Tanveer has been up to no good
 
Login to find out (August 10, 2005 at 1:06pm)
He caught Poison Ivy while picking paan last week. Poor basturd.
 
Login to find out (August 10, 2005 at 1:05pm)
Tanveer has rash? what have you been doin mister? :P
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 6:15pm)
Tanveer, I miss that rash too!! LOL JK
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 6:14pm)
Thanks Candy!! Thats my baby!!
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 6:02pm)
MPG, Yes we did miss you! Very cute puppy! :)
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 6:01pm)
Theoutkast, OMG!!!! Poor MPG! #:
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 1:28pm)
Sorry I cant pay attention as well since you blocked the oxygen from going to my brain! LOL
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 12:44pm)
Forget it. Bad joke implying I tied you up, threw you in a trunk, and left you for dead somewhere but I guess they found you. Maybe I should have been a bit more clear. My bad. :P
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 12:40pm)
Who found me?? Huh?? LOL
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 11:45am)
Hey MPG. You're back! I guess they found you. :P
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 11:40am)
WHAT HAVE I MISSED!!?? I NEED TO CATCH UP! BRB! LOL :) (Did you's miss me?? If you didn't, just lie and tell me you did!)
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 10:45am)
I don't get it either. I think they feel that American raised Desi women can't cook a decent dhaal. :P
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 10:41am)
Cubsfan, I agree with ya all the way! The guys on this village are cool and open-minded for the most part but generally speaking, most desi men still want the fobby type of gals which I dont understand . I hear so many stories of american born/ raised guys flying off to India to find a bride. What is up with that?
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2005 at 8:00am)
I agree with all the girls statements, i am glad to see some cool enlightened fella's in here, but you are far and few btw, in my experience desi guys no matter how americanized they are, are still somewhat fobby at heart, they really don't want a girl that can speak her mind, stand on her own two feet. Listen, i can cook, clean and even sew, but also i am independent, i don't rely on anyone, believe in myself, am outgoing, love to be flirty and fun and am professional, but some of you desi boys can't dig it...for those that can't they are losing out on some amazing desi girls!
 
Login to find out (August 8, 2005 at 11:56pm)
Cubsfan, You're hot chicka!! You dont need any help from anyone! Flash way! Oh also the way things are going, I may join the L-word village with you.....
 
Login to find out (August 8, 2005 at 11:52pm)
Cubsfan, LOL If I get some beads then I'll do the deed... :P
 
Login to find out (August 8, 2005 at 11:50pm)
TheOut kast, I like how ya think... :P