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Would you go back?


AA. I was raised in the US my whole life but went to Saudi for Hajj last year. REading what you guys 'miss' from there... Sounds like you had some awesome times as kids playing and feeling safe there. There's something to be said about being amongst your own pple I think. I was raised in the US and we always felt that we were different as kids, looked different and definately a minority; get picked on etc.

If you were to raise kids, would you want to do it there or here?

Is there any reason you would consider worth going to live there again?
 

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Login to find out (January 21, 2007 at 9:10am)
All of you have made good points so there's no use in me repeating the same thing. In my case no I wouldn't want to go back.

The only reason I would think of living there is for Makkah and Madinah.
 
Login to find out (January 19, 2007 at 5:33pm)
I agree with Saqibz that it is a very racist country. A few years ago, I had read somewhere that the Human Rights Organization found Saudi one of the worst nations for human rights violations. Also, the women are mostly confined to the home and rarely get any financial, educational, occupational, and religious independence. For these and other reasons, I would neither want to live in Saudi permanantly nor raise kids there. However, I would LOVE to go back as a tourist just to walk the streets, take a drive through the residential and school areas where I had been, and re-live a few other fond memories of my childhood and school life that I spent in the major cities (Jeddah, Riyadh, and Khobar).
 
Login to find out (January 18, 2007 at 10:45pm)
Spending the childhood was good there, so I thought. In retrospect it was and still is the most racist and human rights abusing country I have been to. Went back there for work, thinking that the atomic time clock ticking of 16 years might have changed things. But needless to say it was and will always be the most backward, jahil, human rights abusing,bigot and racist country ever to exist in the modern times. Slavery was outlawed in 1962 in saudia but still is practiced in the form of constitutional slavery. en.wikipedia.org

nuff said...
 
Login to find out (December 29, 2006 at 12:48pm)
No
 
Login to find out (December 13, 2006 at 1:02am)
like high rents, crazy traffic, low-end jobs and absolutelty no appreciation of a dry sense of humour
 
Login to find out (November 24, 2006 at 5:10am)
i think its only after you leave saudi (and grow up) that you realise how different it is to most places - it gives you a good grounding in a way in being Muslim, but i'm glad i left at 13.. would only really go back if tourism was allowed and for hajj/ umrah. to settle down/ live might be better to go somewhere like dubai (but i'm sure living there there are other issues)
 
Login to find out (August 9, 2006 at 7:27pm)
in a heartbeat.
 
Login to find out (June 30, 2006 at 5:15pm)
hell no I wouldn't go back. The only attraction is of course makkah and madinah, but I think riyadh is seriously screwed up, and I dont want my kids(if I have any) to be worrying about gays, over the top "sharia" enforcing hyprocrytes, and lets not forget the racist slurs. I think Saudi could be beutifull, its a saint with leprocy, once it gets rid of the racism, corruption and gets back to the middle way of Islam as it was meant to be, it will be awesome. I enjoyed my days but once was enough.
 
Login to find out (June 28, 2006 at 8:37pm)
I lived there 26 years of my life...beuatiful memories, safety, friends and family, high school, university, my first job!!!
yes... food, shopping, perfumes!!, shoes!!!! jewellery, fashion... i miss the mall experience of course; but i also miss my friends that i grew up with.

i do know that being in SA kinda prepared me for living in the West here... i had exposure to a variety of cultures and communities.
I loved it; i dont know if i would go back though... living the life of a single person is harder there than life as a couple.
 
Login to find out (May 30, 2006 at 6:50am)
i was born and raised in saudi arabia, 20 years of hell,
will nevaaaaaa evaaaaaaaaaa go back...

not because, there are no clubs n we cant party n blah blah stuff like that.. there was allways ways around that.

will not go back because, freakinnnnn saudi's do not respect any one but them selfs... selfishhh Mother ^%$%#%$#@#.

its a 3rd world country and will remain a 3rd world country for the rest of our lifezzz....

its a muslim country, where muslims other then a FREAKIN Saudi, does not have ANY RIGHTs to do ANY THING. and if you raise your voice against it.. YOU WILL BE JAILEDDD.
 
Login to find out (May 16, 2006 at 5:31pm)
I was raised there till I was 17... and then as they say my miseducation began...

Fact of the matter is, you can practice Islam to any degree you wish.. you can be a free flowing liberal kinda person or you can be as strict in your following of Islam and you will not be judged...

Most of the good bits about Saudi Arabia (or my home.. Jeddah) have been highlighted already... but they forget one key ingredient... being able to eat anywhere at any time not having to worry about the fact whether or not the stuff is halal or not... a great thing I miss is that I could say salam to anyone and would always get a response.... I didnt have to wonder....

oooh... did i mention halal food all the way??? :)
 
Login to find out (May 12, 2006 at 11:43pm)
I would go back if my spouse and I could get suitable jobs there- it's a great place to raise children because they get to learn so much about Islam and the Qur'an if they are sent to certain schools there. And it's also a great place for saving money-considering nothing is taxed there. The only downfalls are that you can't buy property/businesses there and you cannot obtain Saudi citizenship (but really, who wants Saudi citizenship? lol).

I would leave when the kids are in high school- so they can easily go to university back in Canada. And hopefully, whatever values they learned in Saudi Arabia can be incorporated into their daily North American lives. My only concern is that sometimes when children are kept in really really strict households, they rebel the minute they sense freedom.
 
Login to find out (April 17, 2006 at 10:44am)
Salam. I was raised in Saudi and then moved to US when i was 14 years old. I still go back and forth on my breaks to visit my parents in Saudi.
Yes, i would love to raise my kids there just because of AZAN and being 1000 miles away from MAKKAH. This is a place were children can be taught about religion and even be encouraged to folow it because of the obvious masjids at every corner. I know one can't teach their children religion in USA and there are some masjids over here, but the 5 times beautiful sound of AZAN is missing.
Yes, i would love to live there after marriage (if my husband wants to). I have no problem. Some say Saudi is changing a lot bu they forget that so is the whole world. Discrimnation and terrorist attacks will always be there as long as STUPID people continue to live in the world.