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Are some of us simply luckier when it comes to love? Is it true that some people are just better flirts? Is is true flirt helps you in finding your love?
 

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Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 6:39pm)
isnt it the same question asked in two different ways dr. (to-be) topps?

love PRECEDED by flirting..
flirting LEADING to love
so flirting comes first in the equation and love follows..

woooohooo.. i deserve a phd now..
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 1:58pm)
is falling in love always preceeded by flirting?

or does flirting lead to love?
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 11:24am)
So you're saying I should answer the add

'Young man seeks another to 'wine and dine' (in a halaal way of course) his wife, away from him, releasing him from the chains of mariage. No applicant screening, she is all yours. Reply to...'

?

:p
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 9:24am)
lol freak
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 8:03am)
or he may congratulate you for taking me off his hands :(
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 7:58am)
Shh, not so loud your husband may hunt me down and feed me to the lions :p
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 7:53am)
CHOOSA didn't ya say to me the other day that u lubbed me );
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 7:07am)
I would imagine that when people flirt they present themselves as more than what they are. So in my view I do not believe it is a virtue which brings much benefit other than a somewhat playful and at times inappropriate nature exposed.

Though as I've not been in love in this context, my comments would be unjust.
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 6:49am)
i dont think anyone is saying stay at home and it will coming knocking on ur door.

from my own personal experience it happened when i LEAST expected it to happen (and yes luck did play a major part in it)....and the flip side of the coin is....the more you go looking for it the further away it goes.

:(
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 6:39am)
oh correction.. i do know several people who sat and waited patiently/ relied on the first person who came along/ was recommended by their parents:

we are all divorced now

better to make your own luck than to rely on the luck fairy to come and visit you
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 6:38am)
i agree with nussi, some of the biggest flirts are clueless about love

there has to be some substance there

i also think luck has very little to do with it, the ppl who tell me to sit and wait for someone to coming knocking on my door are usually unhappy with the deal they got.. and went out searching themselves so should know better than to dole out such advice

also everyone i know who got married in the last 15 years was proactive about it and didn't take the lazy / flutter your eyelashes once in a while approach
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:55am)
me and G is good thanks :)

we all wanna hear what you guys got upto on ur girli holiday :P
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:43am)
Hey thanks FON..Hope your well..I didn't want to create a fuss you know..like to go quietly..lol
Back to dreary but lovable London..Hows you and G
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:38am)
BEGS & CHOTS glad see you gals are back in one peice...and didn't end up tearing each others hair out :P

and BEGSY you sly dawg :P......u kept it quiet that you were going away with CHOTS and other naseeb members );
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:36am)
i think luck and dare i say it 'destiny' has a lot to do with finding one's luv.

Whether you're a flirt or not....i honestly don't think has anything to do with find your luved one. :(
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:17am)
I am half asleep...and incredibly jet lagged..I didn't get much sleep last night...and i got freaked out by weird dreams..lol ;) seriously..it was freaky..
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:08am)
hey begs.. still got jet-lag... how about u? really didn't wanna come in the office today!
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 5:03am)
Yes I reckon some people are just luckier than others when it comes to finding "the one"...Flirting can put off a potential partner whilst at times it can help...Yo Sham..hows it going hun?
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 4:50am)
agree with nussi... u can flirt without any loving and u can love without any flirting!
 
Login to find out (October 3, 2005 at 12:11am)
Flirting has nothing to do with finding love.