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Before introducing this community, I would like to dedicate this community to one of my very nice friends, MUSTAFA MALIK, because he gave me the idea of making this kind of community. You can say that he is the real creator of this community.
Here, in this community, anyone can discuss different issues regarding marriage. Marriages in different cultures, love or arrange marriages, love, relationships etc. When to marry ? why to marry ? Have any question regarding marriage ?
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has added a new journalHEY my vllage faild too...LETDOWNS....why dont u guys join mine as i have joined yours.....go on save a village!
mmrz
In fact, Its not the matter of failed villages or sucessful villages :)If any person is satisfied just by creating a new thought/community/village, its ok and enough for him / her. Villages/thoughts does'nt necessarily require many many people.
I am not a very big user/visitor of Naseeb + I am also not a paying memeber. I just created some new villages / thoughts and now its open choice for others to share their ideas. I wanted to create some villages, & I created, Thats it. Its not a competition :)
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here is my contribution..to ur village, anon :)
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has added a new journalall girls UNMARRIED HAVE ONLY ONE IMPORTANT DESIRE ,THAT IS TO BE LOVED AND RESPECTED BY THEIR SPOUSES , BUT DOES THIS USUALLY HAPPEN , AFTER THE FIRST FLUSH OF THE PLEASURE OF GETTING MARRIED IS OVER 80% OF US FIND OUT THAT WE MARRIED FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS ,THE EDUCATION, THE GROOMING EVERYTHING IS LOST TO THE DAILY RIGMAROLE OF HOUSEHOLD CHORES WHICH ACTUALLY WE DONT MIND AS LONG AS WE CONFORM TO THE MARGINS SET BY OUR HUSBANDS,BUT THE MOMENT WE WANT SOMETHING OUT OF THIS RANGE WE ARE ACCUSED OF BEING HOUSEBREAKERS AND GOD KNOWS WHAT NOT.....ISNT THIS WHAT THE HOLY QURAN TEACHES US TO COEXIST IN AN ENVIRONMENT WHICH IS PEACEFUL AND CONDUCIVE TO MARITAL BLISS....I REALLY THANK ALLAH AND SARKAAR(PBUH) FOR TRULY LIBERATING US
mmrz
Dost6771 raised a very good point....in fact, what she mentioned , its all about culture, mentality......what is a home / husband/ wife life structure developed by a society.....I 100% agree with Dost6771...One more reason of thinking like that is MALE DOMINATION....male / female dominated societies always always suffer from negativity and destruction...There should be a complete balance between the roles of husband and wife....
Blaming just women to destroy home and to serve them like slaves is only cultural/mental/traditional problem....
I agree that its not Islam.
dost6771
tHIS IS THE TRUE ISLAM , MY ISLAM WHICH GIVES THE MAXIMUM PROTECTION AND SUPPORT TO THE FEMALE FORM...IT IS ONLY THE HUMANS WHICH MISINTERPRET AND CONFUSE.
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has added a new journalwhich way is good, Love or arranged marriage ???
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we can find +ve and -ve in both of the cases..we can also find sucessful and failed cases of marriages in both of the cases..it depends on every individual that how he/she handles the situation and keep balance in all relationships.
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has added a new journalits really very interesting/analyzing question.
There is no ideal age to marry. Its ideal + positive to marry as soon as possible after your mature age....BUT
No doubt that very right age for girls and guys is 18-22...but things r not so simple. There are many many factors like ur culture, system, materialism, idealism, etc..it depends on that in what system u r in..increasing number of un married girls and guys with the pessage of time is one of the greatest reasons of negativity in the today's world..
dont forget to read my articles on my website geocities.com
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Marry as soon as possible after u reach mature stage..BUT its sad + negative that things r not so simple.
why some persons still could'nt marry ???
reason is system....we r prisoners of system, no doubt. ..this is the thing which i always say, + this is what negativity in our societies...systems force people to do whatever it wants..who made this non islamic system ? we, ourselves..our own families, traditions, assumptions, culture..:)