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  • Hmm.. Confused.. Arab men only want Arab women.. Desi men only want Desi women.. Unless they want a greencard.. Or want to use you for money.. Or something else.. So, questions: 1.) How can you tell if a man is looking for a greencard? - if he wants to come here, that's fairly obvious, but if he wants you to move there, slightly more subtle.. 2.) Why would an Arab or Desi guy (in all honesty) want a non-Arab/Desi woman? 3.) How can you tell when a person is actually genuin... Read More

    January 25, 2006 at 7:59pm
    good question though
    January 25, 2006 at 6:39pm
    Also, what kind of guys you looking for? Maybe I can assist. There are way to many good single brothers out there.
    January 25, 2006 at 2:46pm
    1 - Dont consider anyone over seas if you are that paranoid about it. 2 - If they were smart, they would want someone outside their own culture, our Ummah needs some diversit...
 
  • Hmm.. Confused.. Arab men only want Arab women.. Desi men only want Desi women.. Unless they want a greencard.. Or want to use you for money.. Or something else.. So, questions: 1.) How can you tell if a man is looking for a greencard? - if he wants to come here, that's fairly obvious, but if he wants you to move there, slightly more subtle.. 2.) Why would an Arab or Desi guy (in all honesty) want a non-Arab/Desi woman? Read More

    February 28, 2006 at 3:12am
    .......... if its for green-cards ! yes most definitely. :#
    January 28, 2006 at 1:58pm
    Can't read that comment :)
    January 27, 2006 at 11:58pm
    I personally feel, when you are talking abt someone WANTING someone, there are two sides to it. One is for sheer matrimony and nothing else, and the second is dat u love someon...
 
  • When you're angry and hurt, keeping it all inside and not doing anything, what can you do to make these negative feelings go away, other than yelling at the person or people that the anger is targeted towards?

    January 27, 2006 at 8:55am
    paradise, in the situation you describe.. unnecessary drama created by someone you know, sometimes sitting down with them and having a quiet, calm word helps as: - they can s...
    January 26, 2006 at 3:13am
    I think the situation MIGHT be getting better. Of course, since life is so unpredictably unsettling, I can't be for sure.
    January 25, 2006 at 4:32am
    Inshallah everything will be fine soon. A bad phase cant last a life time. Now that the relationship is two fold u have to be even more careful as to how u deal with it. If your...
 
  • What is everyone's favorite television show?

    January 26, 2006 at 4:00pm
    Yeah my husband's been working there since Sep. He is an IT contractor. His project there ends in mid Feb, so thats when I am returning to Chicago for good.
    January 26, 2006 at 6:54am
    hi sakina.. its goin. how are you? weren't you like just in cali a few weeks ago?
    January 26, 2006 at 3:15am
    Hey Meesum, hows it going? I'm going to California for 2 weeks on Friday, no naseebing while I am there.
 
  • The division in Islam is symptomatic of an earlier power struggle amongst the Quraish i.e. Between Banu-Ummaya and Banu-Hashim. By the turn of the 7th century, Banu Hashim had lost the leadership of the Quraish to the resurgent and rich Banu Ummayad tribe. With the coming of Islam, the Prophet(PBUH), a Hashimite, naturally became the centre of all power in Arabia unifying all tribes under his political leadership. This was naturally resented by the Ummayads and their return to power came when Third Cali... Read More

    January 25, 2006 at 6:10pm
    Ali(as) was selected not only by prophet(saa) but by Allah(swt
    January 25, 2006 at 10:00am
    It is pretty interesting how politics ends up affecting theology....
    January 25, 2006 at 8:59am
    To continue... Ali (AS) nominated Imam Hassan (AS) bin Ali who left the Caliphate after being unable to secure the vote of confidence ... He ultimately did derive a pensi...
 
  • 81 points (even if its against the Raptors). WOW!

    January 28, 2006 at 5:31pm
    Kobe wont change .. and I dont think his teammates are that bad. Odon is a stud and Smush can shoot. I'd take them over AI's supporting cast any day. But Kobe got what he wan...
    January 26, 2006 at 12:57am
    in the post-game interview, he thanked the fans for their support but neglected to thank his teammates...after all, if they hadn't been chuckin up bricks all game long, he would...
    January 24, 2006 at 9:06pm
    LOL everyones so negative about Kobe. MJ was a bigtime ball hog when he first started, in fact, he was like that much of his career. He only started distributing towards the e...
 
  • No. 4508 - Narrated Al-Mughira: The Prophet used to offer night prayers till his feet became swollen. Somebody said, to him," "Allah has forgiven you, your faults of the past and those to follow." On that, he said, "Shouldn't I be a thankful slave of Allah)?" Sahih Al-Bukhari

    January 23, 2006 at 12:35am
    :)
 
  • I thought this was interesting, have a look! Tell us what you think. Personally, I think they hit the usa, thailand, australia and canada on the button. As for china, chinese are not patient people!!! blog.outer-court.com Peace

    January 25, 2006 at 8:44pm
    lol, yeah, give me a car any day :) I'l even settle for a bus *: Peace
    January 24, 2006 at 2:53pm
    Dead right on people not walking in the US.
    January 24, 2006 at 2:46pm
    Didn't know Libya had good navigational skills. With China I think stubborn comes to mind.
 
  • What's the Arabs distribution by state here in the US of A? From what I'm told I'm lead to believe there is a mini Arabia in Michigan =) Also what is the predominant nationality among US Arabs? Egyptians? Lebanese?

    January 28, 2006 at 12:26pm
    Hmmm for some reason I never knew that Muslims are a minority within the US Arab community. Not that it changes anything of course. Thanks for the link Hzma, it looks like you...
 
  • My latest challenge...... Insha Allah I will be starting a sign language class. The place where the classes are held is also a center for the deaf. When they found out I was a teacher and looking to do soem volunteer work, they asked if I would be interested in teaching English to deaf Malay students. While I would love to, I have no idea how that would work. But, I'm always up for a challenge :) This is my first time doing this. Before, I taught deaf children in the states, but they already knew english... Read More

    February 19, 2006 at 2:31am
    True, time does fly when we're together. We had a picnic yesterday and before we knew it, it was time to go home. It was amazing, I actually remembered more sign than I though...
    February 17, 2006 at 7:48am
    [ma] Ur doing a great job.Jst duno worry u'll not now how time will fly when ur with them. Farid
    January 24, 2006 at 4:35am
    LOL !!! kids, you gotta love 'em! Peace
 
  • Feeling pretty isolated in the cut throat boston market..is there a local organization? SABA isn't great, trying Womens Bar here.. would love some recomendations...

 
  • I'm calling it with seven minutes to go... #6 Steelers vs. #1 Seahawks... This is first time a team seed sixth, has made it to the Super Bowl, let alone won a game in the playoffs. The last wild card playoff team to make it to the Super Bowl was the Broncos seed fifth, they went on to win the Super Bowl XXXII. The Seahawks become the 26th team to make it to the Super Bowl. Will the Steelers become the third team to win its fifth Lombardi trophy or Seatle win in their first appearance ever?

    February 9, 2006 at 3:07pm
    the primitive fedex commercial was aight....the rest kinda sucked just like the bowl...
    February 9, 2006 at 3:06pm
    da bears are prolly gonna sign him from what i heard...too bad he's not taller, i think he woulda made a nice QB.
    February 7, 2006 at 9:31pm
    after all the hype, the game was so boring I started looking for some fun in the Ads. Turns out they weren't much better this year so I figured you know what the game might just...
 
 
  • as we all know hydrabdies are very Nawabi type of peoples i am pretty sure we have some fine shayar among us and when it comes to joke we all represent Hamid Kamal we are nown as one of the funnest people on the earth so let se who got jokes who knows Shayaries let bring the talent out

    January 24, 2006 at 4:27pm
    ye sab internet se nikaale kya miyan?
    January 22, 2006 at 6:55pm
    Msg na karke dil tod diya mera, ab mobile dafna dena, Kafan na mile to apna rumal udha dena, Koi puchhe rog kya thha, to nazre jhuka k apni Kanjusi bata dena.
    January 22, 2006 at 6:54pm
    Allah Allah Tera Zor Hai Mere Deewane Mein Kal Hi Zamanat Karwaii Thi Aj Phir Se Thane Mein Port Per Rehte Hein Sohrab Ghot Mein Sote Hein Jab Tere Yaad Aati Hai Ji...
 
  • This is one of many Shia practices that I deplore (no offense to any Shias in this village)... Following information taken from www.iran-daily.com Temporary Marriage Benefits Outlined "A parliamentarian described temporary marriage as a legal alternative to street prostitution. Morteza Fazl-Ali gave assurances that the solution would help scale down the problems created by street prostitution--a vicious phenomenon in the Iranian society where a large num... Read More

    January 24, 2006 at 8:21am
    Kaniza: Your response to Aragorn...well I just want to say that when men were dying in wars on the battleground back in the day and to curb prostitution, men were permitted to t...
    January 23, 2006 at 10:29pm
    Kaniza: Good! For a second I thought you lost your mind!
    January 23, 2006 at 6:24pm
    Point noted, Aragorn. Thanks for clarifying.
 
 
 
  • Salaams, I'm looking for someone who can cater Pakistani appetizers (samosas, kabobs, etc.) on fairly short notice, for an event next Thursday, Feb. 2nd. Price and quality are important factors, of course, as is punctuality - it'll take place in Metro Center at about 6:30 or 7 pm. You can Naseebmail me privately if you want. Thanks, Umbreen

 
  • 14 days of sunburn and UV rays, prawn fests and magical sunsets?lol?wot wud any African adventure be like wifout the mention of sunsets, potholes and markets :) dec ?05 and jan ?06 was a kinda d?j? vu of the summer before, where we had been on a road trip to zambia and zimbabwe. This time however, we were the same number of ppl in st lucia(bens it?s d st lucia along the coast of d Indian ocean?maybe d Caribbean next tym!) and the same number of cars, 15 ppl 3 cars. Tho we bid farewell to this group and joined... Read More